JML09 (original poster member #26809) posted at 8:46 AM on Sunday, May 17th, 2026
He’s done it again, this time with someone I have questioned him over and over about over the last 8 years and he’s adamantly denied everything. We no longer live together. I found out through my adult child, he was careless and she found out. I’m supposed to meet with him tomorrow - he hasn’t spoken to me at all since she confronted him. I don’t want to see him. I want to text him and just basically say I’m filing for divorce and have nothing to say to him, not do I care what he has to say. Emotionally I can’t handle an in-person meeting. How can I word the text without tipping my cards? I’m paying the retainer for a lawyer on Monday.