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Found out last week my husband has been cheating, we have 2 children and are married. I'm devastated and I don't know how to move forward now especially with the children. He met the woman at the gym, they became friends and he admitted he enjoyed spending time with her and things escalated. He insists there was only kissing but no sex but admitted there was talk of sex and if things had continued sex could have happened. She also said she loves him and he said it back although he claims he doesn't love her He was just scared about ending things with her and me finding out so he continued with it and essentially led her on but obviously I don't know if that's the case. He immediately cut contact with her and deleted her number,He admitted he has been selfish and only thinking of himself and completely neglected me and seems very remorseful. I have lost myself as a person and as a mum all I have done is take care of everyone and given up on myself which he also said he took for granted what I was doing and basically walked all over me because I was soft and he knew he could which he said he knows is fucked up and selfish (which is horrible to hear) but that is the case. He says being apart this week has really has hit home and says he will do anything to get me and the kids back including counselling etc. I just don't know if I can get over the thought of him kissing her and saying he loves her just kills me. Can you really make it work after that?